Fenis

It’s here!  The Fenis, a silicone stand-to-pee device, is allll mine.  I was so excited when Early to Bed tweeted that they got them in and immediately had to check them out.  I have a PStyle and it works great but I’ve been wanting to try a silicone STP for a while.

As with a lot of STP’s out there, the Fenis comes in a large color selection. Early to Bedcurrently carries seven of the colors, so you’re bound to find one you like. I went with the hot pink, thought I was torn between that orange, clear, and purple. If they had the green, it would have been no competition.  I wanted something bright and fun, so pink it was.  Orange also fits that bill but one of my friends is planning on getting the orange and I didn’t want to end up with an awkward camping moment.

So what’s going on with the Fenis? It’s 7.5 inches long, 1 inch in diameter and has 4 cm diameter hole for fluids to flow from. The trough portion that you hold up to your vagina is 3.5 inches long and tapers from 1.5 to .5 inches in width.  The silicone is smooth, squeezable, and bendable but returns to its shape when released.  The Fenis comes in a plastic ziploc bag with a sticker on that says “Fenis” and has a picture of multiple colors of Fenises (or would the be Feni?) along with a little information about the Fenis.

One thing I was worried about with a silicon STP was whether or not it would be too soft. I had paranoid visions of the tube collapsing on itself and pee backing up onto me. Rest assured, this does not happen! The Fenis works great and very easy to position. For some reason I feel like the Fenis is even easier to position than the PStyle. The hole at the end of the tube is large enough as well to keep fluids flowing easily and quickly.

My Fenis has some small air bubbles in the ‘trough’ area but they are still water-tight with no leaking and kind of lend a unique look to it. From using mine, I would offer one important tip: if storing in a plastic bag wrap your Fenis in a paper towel or soft cloth. Why is this important? The plastic sticks to the silicone and when you try to remove it you get that awful candy wrapper noise, which could be obnoxious in the middle of the night on a camping trip, in a public restroom, or anywhere else you decide to use your Fenis.

Interested in a Fenis“>Fenis but worried about the care of it? Early to Bed“>Early to Bed explains it best:

Cleaning the Fenis can be accomplished in a variety of ways. If used in a remote location, a quick rinse with water is useful if available before storage. If no water is available, the unit can be folded and returned to bag and sealed for a later cleaning. A sanitizing gel or spray is also an excellent option. When cleaning at home, the Fenis can withstand all manner of cleaning agents, from mild detergents or antibacterial soaps to diluted bleach or boiling water. The Fenis is durable and will hold up to repeated use and cleaning over many years with proper care. Silicone is inert, non-porous and does not support microbiological growth.

Do you want a Fenis? Yes. Do you need a Fenis? YES!! So go get one!

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Jessica Drake’s Guide to Wicked Sex: Anal

I reviewed Jessica Drake’s Guide to Wicked Sex: Fellatio a while back and found it to actually be pretty interesting and even to have a few tips I hadn’t thought of.  So when her new film Jessica Drakes Guide to Wicked Sex: Anal came out I wanted to check it out as well.  The movies are intended to be informative and educational as well as arousing and they reach their goal.

As with the Fellatio movie, Jessica Drakes Guide to Wicked Sex: Anal starts out with Jessica talking you through what you’ll be seeing and hearing about in the film. She then introduces you to real porn star couples talking about anal sex: how they got into it, what they like about it, and how to do it. The couples interviewed are Dana DeArmond and Ramon Nomar and Asa Akira and Mr. Marcus. They talk about their first experiences with anal sex, why they think men like anal sex, the fears they had, preparation, preferences with what’s used for anal sex, and lubricants.

I love the interview sessions because everything they talked about were things I thought about, worried about, or wondered about when I was new to anal sex. Asa Akira says that the most important thing is being turned on and I agree with that sooo much. I know from my own personal experience that anal sex was not even an option until I started becoming turned on by the idea and then turned on in the moment. The more turned on I am, the better it is. Which is usually the case for most things.

After the interviews, Jessica talks about preparing for anal play. Some of the things she talks about include exterior cleaning, shaving, and enemas. There is even a separate clip about enemas because she realizes that a lot of viewers may not be up for that early on. Then she briefly talks about analingus and then Dana DeArmond and Ramon Nomar demonstrate the technique. Jessica also talks about external anal stroking without penetration in this segment. Asa Akira and Mr. Marcus then also demonstrate working up to anal play with body worship.

The scene returns to Jessica and she discusses moving in to penetrative play. The first step is using fingers and she also suggests gloves and lubricant if desired. Gloves aren’t necessary but can be a nice option if your partner has nice manicured nails that they want to keep from causing injury. If you put a little bit of cotton in the tips of your glove you can have long nails and still do digital anal play (a tip I actually got from a Tristan Taormino book). We return to the couples who demonstrate different digital stimulation techniques.

After fingering comes toys. I wasn’t too impressed with Jessica’s advice on toys. She talks about porous toys and washing toys or using a condom…but she never mentions non-porous toys or the materials that are non-porous and often preferable for anal play like silicone, glass, or metal. Also…the toy selection the camera pans over is not filled with toys I’d run out and buy. I guess this video is intended for beginners and some of the toys would work well for them, I just feel like there could have been at least a few more quality toys. I also wish she had mentioned the importance of a flared base on toys. She talked about testing toys like anal beads that could come apart, but flared bases are just as important. The toys include anal beads, plugs, dildos, and vibrators. The couples demonstrate their uses.

Jessica takes a moment to talk about condoms and their importance. Next up is numbing creams, and I’m so glad Jessica takes the stance she does on them. Numbing creams can cause injury without realizing it in the moment. They’re just a risk not worth taking. If you take your time, you’ll be fine and happier for it. Also, something I commend Jessica for is pointing out that porn doesn’t show the warm up that anal sex requires and that you shouldn’t expect your experience to match with what you see in a movie.

Next, we return to couples interviews to find out what positions they prefer. Turns out you can do it in pretty much every position and its all about what you like. Then Jessica has the couples show you how to get started with initial insertion of the penis. This is the stuff they don’t show in porn, the slow warm up before the hard pounding you often see.

The next portion features a real life couple, Lyla and Jeremy, who were anal novices. They talk about their initial experience and what they learned from it and then begin to explore each other on camera. They volunteered for the experience and to be able to learn and share what they’ve learned. they have a full scene from start to finish showing how they work up to anal sex with a penis.

After the educational portion there are two ‘hardcore’ scenes that you can watch featuring the experienced couples. The first scene is Dana and Ramon. They start out kissing and touching which soon evolves into a 69 position that includes anal and vaginal stimulation for Dana. Dana is extremely flexible and eventually ends up with her knees up by her ears as Ramon gives her a rim job before returning to oral. Dana also provides oral before they start having anal sex in various positions. The scene ends with Ramon coming on her butt. The second scene stars Asa Akira and Mr. Marcus. They take a similar route of oral for each other, adding anal fingering for Asa. They start out with vaginal sex and the move on to anal and finish with a blow job where Mr. Marcus comes on her tongue.. Dana’s scene was definitely the more hardcore of the two.

The bonus enema scene is done by Dana DeArmond. She talks about the supplies you need and what to do with the supplies. She demonstrates favorite positions for inserting water. She even squeezes water from the bottle and demonstrates giving herself an actual enema. She kind of cracks me up in this scene because of the way she enunciates things.

So my thoughts? A great video for beginners or anyone who’s curious about anal play. Even getting a short demonstration on enemas was helpful to me, an experienced anal enjoyer. Dana DeArmond is amazingly sexy, as always and even the novice couple was enjoyable to watch.

Get your own copy of Jessica Drakes Guide to Wicked Sex: Anal from Tabu Toys and explore the pleasure of anal sex yourself!

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Vamp Lolita Giveaway!!


This lovely dildo could be yours! I’m giving away a blue marbled Vamp Lolita, courtesy of SheVibe.com. Not familiar with this short but mighty dildo? Read my review here.  This is a 4.5 inch long silicone dildo with a 1.5 inch diameter.  If you haven’t experienced Vamp Silicone’s Softskin, you need this!!  Enter below in the Rafflecopter widget.  U.S. entries only please.  Giveaway ends 8/17/12 at 12:01 am EST.

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Elegant Moments Open Bust Leather Corset

I’ve needed some new lingerie in my collection lately. Well, not needed…wanted. I checked out the selection at several retailers and finally found something that fit my needs, the Elegant Moments Open Bust Leather Corset with Zipper Front. I didn’t want just another stretchy cloth outfit that is pretty but doesn’t support or do anything to make me look different. Corsets were definitely high on my list and my collection is seriously lacking in leather. Once again, it is SheVibe.com to the rescue! They have such a great selection of products in all areas (toys, movies, lingerie, etc.) and even have a wide selection of sizes.

So, I picked this lovely leather number which meets the corset and leather requirement.  When I got the box, I opened it and was immediately hit with a blast of leather aroma.  I was pretty excited to get it out and try it on.  This corset comes with detachable garters and a matching leather thong that are attached to the corset by a plastic ring (like tags at a store are on).  The thong itself is only leather on the front triangle, all of the straps including the one that runs between the legs is black elastic that is half an inch in width.  The garters are in a plastic ziploc bag so they won’t get lost.  They attach to the corset with plastic garter hooks that slide through black cloth loops on the bottom of the corset.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The corset itself is smooth leather on the outside and matte leathery on the inside.  The triangles that the breasts go through are made of leather and have silver o-rings to connect them and snaps to make the adjustable.  There are two snaps on each end of the shoulder strap and two at the o-rings where the ‘cup’ attaches to the corset.  So really, you could make this a strapless, cupless corset.  Its two corsets in one!

 

 

 

 

The zipper measures approximately 13.5 inches long with the longest part of the corset measuring 16.5 inches.  The boning feels like flexible plastic boning, so it isn’t as strict as steel boning would be, but it does help shape some.  The laces in the back are black braided shoe string type laces with silver metal tips.  Laying on the bed by itself, the laces don’t look very impressive, but once on I feel like they look better.  They certainly hold well.  There are silver rings for the laces to go through so that there is no strain put on the fabric.

 

 

 

 

Putting this on the first time was a bit of a marathon.  I didn’t have anyone to adjust the strings for me, so I put it on and took it off like 5 times to get it adjusted.  If you do have someone handy, it will make it quicker…but you also might want to surprise your partner so…keep in mind that you’ll need some time to get it adjusted.  Preferably not right before you’re going to play so they aren’t waiting on you.  Once I got the laces adjust properly and was all zipped up, this felt great.  I love the feel of the leather against my skin and how this corset made my posture different.  It made me feel sexy and powerful.  The thong is easy to put on as are the garters, though I always have trouble hooking garters to hose once they’re on.  Maybe there’s a secret I don’t know?

I have large breasts, DD-G depending on the bra and weight fluctuations. That’s one reason I prefer cupless lingerie since most lingerie is cut for smaller breasts, but also it is just visually appealing.  I had no problem slipping my breasts through the triangles on this corset without changing the snap settings.  I love that it is an option to though.  Especially if you have a bit smaller breasts, you can make this fit a bit better.  This corset is available in sizes 32-44 (based on bra band size, size chart here) which covers a nice range of body shapes, not to mention the adjustablity with the lacing.  The only thing I’m not crazy about is the thong.  I don’t really care for the elastic as it tends to kind of roll and I’m worried if I pulled too hard on it that it might tear.  I’m not sure if it being all leather would be an improvement or not.

I’m really pleased with this corset.  I can move in it and I feel sexy in it.  That’s all I really ask of my lingerie.  Thanks toSheVibe.com for coming to the rescue again with their great selection of products and for providing this product free for an honest opinion!!

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RodeoH Brief

We’ve all heard the raves about the newest harness on the sex toy scene, the RodeoH.  So, naturally, I had to investigate.  I got the red and black briefs because I love that bright pop of red in these and they just look so comfy.

So, what’s up with these briefs?  They’re more than just briefs, obviously.  they have a little pocket that is directly behind the stretchy o-ring so you can put our dildo or packer in and still feel the soft cotton against your skin.  Stretchy o-rings definitely seem to be the thing in fabric harnesses these days and I have to say that its a great feature.  This allows for your harness to accommodate multiple sized dildos without having to keep track of a bunch of o-rings.  And…that also means you can change dildos mid-play without a lot of work.  Why is that great?  Maybe your partner likes to start with a smaller dildo and work up to a bigger one.  You might get the o-ring a bit lube-y but you can definitely switch the dildos out with little interruption.

My favorite thing about this harness is that it is so un-harness-like.  There are no straps to adjust, no velcro noises during adjustment.  You just slip it on like underwear and insert your dildo or packer (or you can put the toy in first) and go.  These briefs are so comfortable that they can be worn all day long, which is great if your packing.  They have a wide elastic waist band which keeps the briefs from sliding, slouching or folding while supporting the weight of whatever toy you are using.

The stretchy o-ring can accommodate up to a 2 inch diameter toy and is recommended with a 5 to 6 inch length toy.  As you can see in the picture, my Vamp Silicone Lolita fits in it quite well.  Lolita is 4.5 inches long and 1.5 inches in diameter, so pretty close to the recommended specs.  The o-ring is placed perfectly so that during use you get the friction from thrusting, which is half the fun in my opinion.

Comfort is like the forte of the RodeoH briefs.  They are so soft and light feeling.  The material is 95% cotton and 5% spandex, so they are breathable, always a plus.  They’re also machine washable which no one will complain about.  And…they come in a great variety of sizes!  The sizing is done by hip sizes so just measure your hips and then pick the size where you fall.  RodeoH also has boxer briefs, which I’d love to try out as well.

These are my favorite 3 harnesses that I own.  As you can see, I have one more empty hook there on my door.  I think I need to fill it with a quality leather harness but if I get my hands on a RodeoH boxer brief…the leather may not have a spot!

This product was provided free for an honest review.

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Vixen Creations Randy

With summer in full swing I couldn’t resist a little bit of fun with my yard decorations. So, I present for your enjoyment a well-hung garden gnome sporting the Vixen Creations Randy.  Really, a tiny little harness would have made it even better.

For us real people, the Vixen Creations Randy is available from Babeland. Why might you want it? Besides violating your garden statues…you may want to use it to bring intense orgasms to your world.
Warning: Randy is not for the feint of vagina. This is one intense dildo.

What makes this an intense dildo starts with the girth which is an impressive 2.25 inches in diameter.  Yeah, you read that right. 2.25 inches.  In. Diameter.  What does that mean for my (and your) vagina?  Warm up and lube are a must.  But the extra work is so worth it once you are able to get this beast inserted.  This is not a thrusting dildo for me and probably not for most people.  This feels amazing fully inserted with a vibrator on my clit.  I can just lay back, enjoy feeling full and get off at will.

The other thing that makes this dildo intense is the firmness of the silicone.  There are actually two versions of the Vixen Creations Randy, one is regular silicone like mine and the other is made of VixSkin which is Vixen Creations dual density silicone that is squishy on the outside. The regualr silicone is quite firm with very little give. I like both squishy and firm silicone, so that isn’t an issue. ‘Intense’ is reached when the firmness is coupled with the size of this dildo. But like I said earlier, lube and some warm up will lead to the good kind of intense.

The length of the Vixen Creations Randy is actually pretty perfect at 6 inches. Once I’m warmed and lubed up, I can insert all but an inch of this dildo. I can take longer dildos but I think the larger girth keeps me from wanting to insert it further. And really, I don’t need to. Randy has a nice gentle curve that nestles so perfectly to press against my g-spot. As I said earlier, thrusting is not what I want to do with this dildo. If I need a little movement I just flex my vag muscles and squeeze the dildo. Trust me, you don’t need more than that.

As with all silicone dildos, this can be cleaned with warm water and anti-bacterial soap, boiling for 3 to 5 minutes or tossing in the top rack of the dishwasher with no soap. Remember to use water-based lube with your silicone products. I prefer Sliqiud Sassy personally because it is thick, lasts, and doesn’t contain glycerine or parabens.

A fan of girthy dildos or just curious? Get a Vixen Creations Randy for yourself! Maybe you just wanna give your lawn statues genitalia…I’m not judging. Here’s a few more shots for your enjoyment:

That fuzzy mass on the right is my dog Ellee trying to figure out what is going on

Accidentally but perfectly placed shocked frog in the background

The terrifying point of view of a grasshopper

So that is the Vixen Creations Randy. Thanks so much to Babeland for providing this product free for an honest review!

 

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Pleasurists #179

Image courtesy of Chris Kinnk*

Welcome to Pleasurists, a round-up of the adult product contests, giveways, and sex toy reviews that were posted approximately between May 27th and June 10th. If you like what you see consider following the RSS Feed and Twitter for updates on further editions.

Did you miss edition 177? Read it all here. Do you have a review for edition 179? Be sure to read the submission guidelines and then use the submission form to submit before Sunday June 17th @ 11:59pm Pacific Time.

*Pleasurists also accepts photo submissions for the art at the top of editions! For more information click here.

Giveaways & Contests:

Editor:

Quyn Fenix

Adult Product Reviews:

Vibrators

Dildos

Anal Toys

Sleeves, Rings, & etc.

Harnesses

Lube, Massage Oil, Bath Stuff, & etc.

BDSM/Fetish

Adult Books & Games

Adult DVDs & Porn

Lingerie

Miscellaneous

  • 6-pack Replacement Motors by Teagan Shepard

Pleasurists adult product review round-up

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Pleasurists #178

Image courtesy of Epiphora*

Welcome to Pleasurists, a round-up of the adult product contests, giveways, and sex toy reviews that were posted approximately between May 13th and June 3rd. If you like what you see consider following the RSS Feed and Twitter for updates on further editions.

Did you miss edition 177? Read it all here. Do you have a review for edition 179? Be sure to read the submission guidelines and then use the submission form to submit before Sunday June 10th @ 11:59pm Pacific Time.

*Pleasurists also accepts photo submissions for the art at the top of editions! For more information click here.

Giveaways & Contests:

Editor:

Quyn Fenix

Adult Product Reviews:

Vibrators

Dildos

Anal Toys

Sleeves, Rings, & etc.

Harnesses

Lube, Massage Oil, Bath Stuff, & etc.

BDSM/Fetish

Adult Books & Games

Adult DVDs & Porn

Lingerie

Miscellaneous

Pleasurists adult product review round-up

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Vamp Talula

If you look at this picture and guess that this is another amazing product from Vamp Silicone, you are correct!  This is the Talula dildo in the softskin silicone available from SheVibe.com.  These are two of my favorite things together: SheVibe and great sex toys.  I seriously can’t say enough how much I love this shop guys.  They have amazing customer service, a great website, a fun sense of humor, and wonderful prices.  My friend even got me my very own Njoy Eleven for my birthday (review to come!) from them at one of the best prices out there.  If you haven’t checked them out yet, do it!

But back to the sex toy at hand, the Vamp Silicone Talula. Mine is the black and silver swirl in the 6.5 inch length. That length is just for the insertible portion of the dildo. Measuring from the base of the balls to the tip, this comes in at approximately 9.5 inches. The best thing about the Talula is the crazy sharp angle which makes it ideal for harness wear and even solo play.  And of course the delectably squishy yet firm silicone in the beautiful colors.  I really don’t know how Vamp Silicone gets both squishy and firm in one dildo but they do.

When using this solo, the balls actually make a pretty perfect thrusting handle.  Thrusting is pretty easy because of the length, though I don’t get all of the shaft in.  The Talula is just a little too long for my vag, not that it stops me from enjoying it. I can get about 3/4 of the dildo in without issue and even then I can thrust full out because the silicone is just squishy enough to be forgiving to my cervix. The diameter of this dildo is 1.75 inches, which I find to be nice and filling. It takes a small amount of warm up for me to easily take the Talula.

On a side note, I had a moment of vagina awe when I realized that I was considering a diameter of 1.75 inches as a dildo ‘small enough for warm up’. When did this happen?? I don’t know but I’m not going back. In context, Talula was being used for warm up with the Vixen Creations Randy and the Njoy Eleven…so I guess ‘small enough’ is relative…

Back to Talula! The head is slightly larger than the shaft, which is anatomically appropriate and feels great as it slips in. There’s just something about that feeling of getting past that first ridge on cocks and dildos alike that is so satisfying. If you hold the balls so that the flat side is facing up, the fuller side of the head of the dildo rubs nicely against the g-spot. Incidentally, when worn in a harness, the nice full side hits just right all on its own.

I mentioned the angle being good for harnesses earlier. Just to elaborate, this is because the dildo points up like an erect cock as opposed to sagging down while worn. A lot of other dildos need to be pretty firm and unforgiving to achieve this but still get pulled down some by their weight. The Talula is just perfectly angled and really is amazing.

Bottom line? I’m amazed by yet another Vamp Silicone product, available from SheVibe.com. This is a beautiful and functional piece of silicone art that is also affordable! If you haven’t checked out SheVibe.com‘s Vamp Silicone offerings yet, get to it!!

Thanks to SheVibe.com for providing this product free for an honest review.

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VLube Water-based Lubricant

The quest for the ultimate lube continues and this time it takes us to PinkCherry.com and VLube Water-Based Lubricant.  Of course, I prefer water-based lubes because I use so many silicone products but VLube also makes a silicone version.  My bottle is 2 oz and comes with a flip top lid.

For me, ingredients are just as important as how well a lube works.  There are some ingredients that can cause side effects like yeast infections (glycerin) or that are even linked with certain types of cancer (parabens).  You should always be aware of what you are going to be putting on and in your body, especially such delicate parts as your genitals.  That being said, this lube is almost perfect in respect to ingredients.  Almost…because it contains glycerin.  Here’s the whole list of what it contains:

Purified Water (eau purifee), Propylene Glycol, Glycerin (vegetable/legume), Hydroxyethylcellulose, Linocera Caprifolium, and Linocera Japonica extracts (honeysuckle/chevrefeuille)

The bottle does say that VLube is ‘dermatologically tested’, gentle on skin, hypoallergenic, and paraben free.  So, the only less preferable thing in this lube is the glycerin which can cause some women to get yeast infections if they are sensitive to it.  I don’t usually have that problem and did not with this lube.

I did however give this lube a thorough workout testing it both vaginally and anally with silicone, wood, and skin to skin contact.  This is kind of a watery lube in the bottle and when dispensed but once I spread it on toys it didn’t run or drip.  It has no odor and a slightly sweet taste (from the glycerin).  During use on toys it kept things sliding and gliding easily.  When skin to skin contact is involved it absorbs more quickly but natural lubrication keeps it from being too fast.  When I tested a small amount between my fingers it began to absorb within 30 seconds, though that is without any other moisture being applied.  And when I was all done it washes away easily with soap and water.

I’d have to say that this lube definitely ranks in my top 4 or 5 lubes, easily.  I like how it feels in use and don’t have any negative experiences from the glycerin.  This is a great option if you’re looking for a new lube.  I definitely plan on using this bottle up and replacing it with more!

Thanks to PinkCherry.com for providing this product free for an honest review!

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